If Holism,

/then we are separated only by (and in accordance with) our own (misguided?) perceptions about ourselves and about each other.
/but if we gave those up, we would cease to be ourselves and each other.
/that is why we cannot let go, cannot eject;
/we endeavor instead to steer our own perceptions.
/or else we endeavor to cease endeavoring.
/or we let go of the question, linger in whole consciousness, forget our selves, fall at the mercy of those who chose to steer or to fight.